One in four adults may remain unmarried for the rest of their lives, according to a recent Pew Research Center survey that reveals a significant change in how people perceive partnerships.
Approximately 25% of today’s young adults will have never been married by the time they are 50, according to the survey. That’s a significant change from earlier generations, when marriage was seen to be practically inevitable. Just 6% of those aged 40 and above had never married in 1980. That percentage has now risen to 25%.
There is hope despite the concerns of some regarding the future of family life, according to academics. Indeed, a large number of adults who are single say they feel more in charge of their lives. They put more of an emphasis on their friendships, employment, travel, hobbies, and personal objectives. They also frequently feel more content than those who are stuck in miserable marriages.
Psychologists also point out that being single makes one more independent and self-aware. Today’s singles are seeking happiness and meaning on their own terms, rather than defining their value through partnerships.
However, it is not without difficulties. Financial difficulties are more common among single adults, particularly men, according to the Pew survey. Married or cohabitating people typically make more money and have easier access to resources. However, the freedom and tranquility of being single outweigh the drawbacks for many.
Many young people worldwide, especially in Nigeria, are reconsidering marriage and opting to live their lives as they see fit. The message is clear whether it is related to one’s work, wealth, or just personal preferences: being single is a lifestyle choice, not a sign of failure.
And every day, more people choose it with joy.
